- How to outline and research your self-help book
- How to find your writing style and build a daily writing habit
- Editing, formatting, and cover design essentials
- The top platforms for self-publishing your book
- How to build a marketing plan that actually sells copies
If you want to make a difference in the world and share your knowledge, writing a self-help book can be an enriching experience. It takes excellent planning, research, and dedication — but it can also be very lucrative. Writing a book has the potential to transform lives, and by following this plan, you can write and publish your first self-help book in 9 steps.
1. Start With an Outline

It’s time to get organized and plan your book. Outlining is a valuable way to organize your thoughts before you start writing — having a clear direction beforehand makes the creative process much smoother. A simple way to plan is to create a table of contents with the chapters and key topics you want to cover in each.
Determine:
- How many chapters to include
- The topic of each chapter
- The order they should be structured
- Key points or messages you want to make
It’s often easier to work backward, starting with the end goal in mind and breaking down the steps needed to get there. That way, before writing, you’ll capture all the crucial details and can plan a complete list of chapter topics and subtopics.
2. Research Thoroughly

Once you’ve outlined your content, research thoroughly. Research is vital when writing a self-help book because you want to provide the most accurate and up-to-date information.
- Look for books and articles on similar topics
- Read up on experts in the field who could provide valuable insight
- Consult with professionals about specific aspects of your writing
Provide citations and sources for any research you use. This proves the information is accurate and legitimate, and correctly cited research increases the credibility of your work.
3. Choose a Writing Style

Keep your target audience in mind as you write. Consider the tone and language you want to use — will it be conversational or formal? Use language that resonates with your audience so they’re more likely to connect with what you’re saying.
Developing the persona of your ideal reader makes it easier to choose language and tone. Keep this person in mind, and imagine yourself having a conversation with them about your topic. This helps you visualize how you want to communicate with them through your writing.
4. Write Every Day

Now that you’ve decided on your format and outline, it’s time to start writing — the creative, fun part. You don’t have to write a complete book in one sitting. Just begin writing as much as you can, and don’t worry about grammar or editing yet; simply get your ideas down. Write whenever and wherever you feel inspired. The important thing is to keep writing.
When you finish writing for the day, leave your last sentence unfinished. This helps you pick up right where you left off the next day and makes the writing process feel more manageable.
5. Editing & Revising

Once you have a rough draft, it’s time to edit and polish. Read your book over and make sure the ideas, examples, and structure come together cohesively. Have friends or family read it and give feedback too — different points of view help you create the best version of your book. Read through it, make sure everything flows logically, look for grammar and spelling mistakes, and don’t be afraid to make changes.
Consider hiring an editor or proofreader. A professional editor helps ensure your book is polished and ready for publication, and will catch mistakes you might miss. You can find editors and beta readers on sites like Fiverr, Upwork, and Reedsy.
6. Formatting & Cover Design

Once your book is ready, format it and design the cover. Formatting ensures your book looks professional and attractive, while a well-designed cover helps attract readers. When formatting, pay attention to font size, line spacing, margins, and embedding images (if you’re creating an eBook). Most publishing platforms have specific formatting requirements, so read their guidelines before you upload.
A good cover makes your book stand out from the crowd. You can design one yourself with design software like Canva, or hire a professional designer who specializes in book covers. Get a few different concepts, then ask friends, family, or even strangers to vote on which they like best — that helps ensure your cover looks professional and appeals to readers. Be aware of your competition and make sure your cover stands out.
7. Publishing Your Book

There are two options for publishing: traditional and self-publishing. Traditional publishing requires more effort — you’ll need to send sample chapters and a detailed proposal to publishers. Self-publishing can be done quickly, with platforms that let you upload your work directly. When choosing a platform, consider ease of use, cost of services, distribution opportunities, and payment options.
Top self-publishing platforms:
- Amazon Kindle Direct Publishing (KDP) — the largest platform, for ebooks and print-on-demand paperbacks.
- IngramSpark — strong for print books and wide bookstore/library distribution.
- Draft2Digital — the leading “wide” distributor; upload once and reach Apple Books, Barnes & Noble, Kobo, libraries, and more (now includes the former Smashwords network).
- Apple Books — publish directly to Apple’s ebook store.
- Kobo Writing Life — strong international ebook reach, especially outside the US.
- Barnes & Noble Press — publish ebooks and print directly to B&N.
If you’re not sure which platform is best, read reviews and compare pricing. Once you’ve chosen, you can set your prices, decide on your marketing plan, and pick a release date. Many authors opt for self-publishing to maintain control over their books. Follow all the platform’s guidelines when uploading, since mistakes could mean going back to edit your book to meet their requirements.
8. Develop a Marketing Plan

Book publishing doesn’t end with getting published — the real work starts after that. Writing a book without a marketing plan is like having a rocket with no fuel; it won’t go anywhere. Once your book is out, it’s time to market it.
Marketing tips:
- Build an author platform — create a website and social media accounts to reach readers, build relationships with them, and let them know about your work.
- Create a mailing list — this lets you stay connected with readers and send updates about your work.
- Create a press kit — include an author bio, headshot, one-page book summary, and contact info to share with journalists, book reviewers, and media outlets.
- Connect with influencers & bloggers — reach out to influencers in your field, book reviewers, and bloggers interested in featuring or reviewing your book.
When marketing a book, be creative and develop campaigns to get it noticed. Most importantly, make sure the message you’re sending is consistent and clear, so readers understand your work. By leveraging every platform available, you can ensure your work reaches as many potential readers as possible.
9. Monitor Your Progress & Adjust as Necessary

Once you’ve published and implemented your marketing plan, monitor your progress and adjust as needed. This lets you see your strategy’s effectiveness and make changes where necessary.
What to track:
- Your sales and reviews
- The analytics of your website and social media accounts
- The search engine rankings for keywords related to your book
By monitoring your progress, you can identify weak spots and make necessary changes. You can also use this data to inform future marketing decisions, helping you maximize your book’s success.
Finally, remember to celebrate your successes. Writing and publishing a book is no small feat — taking the time to recognize your achievements helps you stay motivated and inspired as you continue your journey. Follow the steps above and you’ll be well on your way to self-publishing a successful book. With dedication and hard work, you can make your publishing dreams a reality.
Want help writing your first self-help book? Book a free call with Trent here to discuss your goals and map out a plan.

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